of the word. Pedophile. I bet, if that word had never been spoken, things would be better for you now. You and She could still talk.
They are afraid to try a new definition of pedophile. Maybe “big brother” will work for them but i’m doubtful now that the p word is out.
If I was your brother (but still the pedo that I am) I would champion a return to the way things were, same association as before, with the one spoken caveat of “no monkey business you two”. Then we could all share a laugh and trust again.
I said you are a pioneer rainbow. I still think so. I still hope for the best for you and that you and She can be together again. I believe it could be okay.