Sorry to answer so late.

My AoA and preference has not changed since puberty. Yet I have sired three children, made several wives happy in bed, and lusted after numerous females in my AoA.

Once, while I was teaching, I had a student who was a professional model, looked gorgeous, was perfectly legal and experienced, liked my classes but had great difficulty with course material. I gave her some private tutoring with no strings attached. She suggested an encounter anyway. I accepted. Big mistake: I could not perform.

One day, before I was "in car serrated", a pretty little girl, in my AoA, available to me privately, was in my home and completely in tune with what really turns me on. Yet, Her personality was that of an adult much of the time. Almost just as often, she was the typical 10 year old. Given that I could have had an encounter with Her, I could not bring myself to lust after Her. Oh my god, she was beautiful, but I just didn't want to "play any reindeer games", so to speak. Her sister, however, was a complete loss of control for me. Sisters, 7 and 10.

No, my present wife understands me completely and we are only rarely in physical contortions with each other.

I am a strange creature. Broken in mind, bent in wishes, closing in on the end of life. The simple imagery and child spirit of a little girl still rules me. It's just that I can restrain myself enough to continue to breathe regularly in Her presence.