It's a difficult topic indeed because no one person will have the same opinion, or be able to form an opinion right away. I know I don't have an answer for most of those questions.
There is no right or wrong answer for any of them.
Whatever the law may decide it won't fully satisfy anyone.
Also, what about the little girls thoughts? Their voices would probably not be heard, even in a subject that attains them directly.
Whaterever the case may be, we should fight while always keeping the girls safety and protection on the first place, and not just for a selfish desire.