Dating status.... (I should add one note assume after I've gotten tired of typing it at some point when I say the word GLer I'm referring to a successful GLer as in someone whom has their life in order and is actively around girls.... and knows how to exist in society with little to no issues.)

I actually have real life GLer friends....so to them I'd say something along the lines... of no LGF currently. I'd say single wouldn't be the right word... I'm living my life "dating?" but currently no long term LGF. (your terminology doesn't necessarily apply the way you want it to in my experience in the life of a successful GLer.)

I've taken girls on "traditional" dates before lol but you need to realize that when you deal with an AoA a successful GLer will take into account an assess what their LGF wants? I've been happy to thrill a girl with a more formal date if that would suit her fancy. It's incredibly rare for a GLer (in our experience.) to make the first move in anything more than what would otherwise be seen by non's as a friendship.

Another aspect that isn't talked about often here enough and I doubt in academia either.

Just because I don't currently have a LGF doesn't mean I couldn't, alot of times when girls come into my life (our lives.) we take into account exactly why she's taken an interest in us. I like the analogy that I have to play many cards (roles.) I very rarely get to just be the lover, sometimes I am a parental figure, brother, friend, teacher, ect.

So while there have been times I could have shirked my duty (as I see it.) and just been the lover to a girl, I've had to put that on the back burner because I needed to be many other things for her. (in a way I'd say we almost at times act like surrogate parents and depending on the parent in question I'd say that the bond that forms between a GLer and a girl is stronger than a parental bond.)



"e.g., b4u-ACT, Virtuous Pedophiles) aimed at MAPs (Minor Attracted Persons)? "

LOL you've got to be kidding me I'd never ever identify with those organizations.... Virped feels like an anti trap as does B4u-act... I'd consider attending B4u because of a rather specific GLer that happened to be there but the ideology they espouse wouldn't be helpful at all lmao. (unless you are one of the self loathing types...)

also managing my attraction to children....?

That entire block of questions feels HEAVILY skewed in the favor of some point of data you are looking for, and if you are trying to understand successful GLer's you are not going to find the information you seek by asking the above questions.


Honestly my "managing" is simple in the the world if you don't find a socially acceptable way of dealing with your attraction you will end up dead/ or in prison.
lmao I've never really thought of needing to "manage" it?.... I have no clue what your orientation of you or your colleagues are...but do you ever feel you have to "manage" your attraction to women/men?

You realize how odd that sounds now I hope?


Also many of these questions don't pertain to a successful MAP (with all due respect to all posters online....sucessful MAP's seldom post online if you've figured out how to be a GLer in the modern day world you keep as low of a profile as possible/ you don't give a damn about the online communities you are too busy with girls.)

I'd say in my own experience with knowing other GLer's they have similar vices to most non's when it comes "coping" but it's more so the stress of everyday life in addition to being a GLer than it is solely being MAP. (I dislike the term but hey if it works for society at large I really don't care what you call me.)

The constant rhetoric of "needing help" gets very old very fast...I wouldn't be surprised if your data is already inaccurate because of how quickly many of the GLer's I know would immediately dismiss your study based upon the wording.


I'm not sure why I bothered attempting to explain things but hey perhaps some of my rambling will make sense to you.

KBA