I’m a non-breeder who has been reading the material here and at BoyChat for some time and I have some big concerns as regards living sex, as it is legal and I know that is what breeders want. First of all I want to know how breeders can possibly want that when any relationship they might have with a living being is doomed by the living being dying. This spells at the very least disappointment for the breeders, if not the real trauma of heartbreak. My goodness, how could any decent person countenance the possibility of that?

Why would they?

Breeders certainly seem to have an enormous love for the living, and become totally adoring, and devoted to any living, that they become involved with, from what I read. I’m sure that most of them would just not simply *dump* someone….they would, hopefully, try to ‘let them down easy’. But after all that over-the-top concentrated love, they would have to “fake” it for some time, one supposes, and any dead would certainly recognize that things are not anymore what they were. How awful that would be after the living has now become used to the non-stop adoration of the breeder.

With all due respect….I don’t get it.