And holy shit, I didn't see you as having kids (at least previously), much less losing a daughter.
I am honestly surprised you do not remember this. It doesn't bother me that you don't so no worries. This was in early 2002, almost a year before I became very regular in GCC and this was what made up roughly 50% of what I chatted about. (You understand, it was very important to me. This was also what caused the infamous feud between Ammelana and myself. We have since buried the hatchet.) The other 50% of my chat time was an indistinct mix on the topics of music, robots, alcohol, giving Dissident a hard time, and every now and then I'd talk about Latin girls and their feet.