Very sorry

And yet, from the years of those who've struggled with clueless parents uploading their crap onto their daughters, all too common. I remember one mom of my legal teen GF many years ago sending her a pocket bible because we were "living in sin" together. It fucked with her already not-too-stable head. Guilt is a weapon wielded often by parents desperate to maintain control beyond the years they are supposed to let go of it, but also used earlier to stifle growth and knowledge.