Adultery

One of the moral dilemmas I have experienced due to my primary attraction is that of adultery. If a married man takes on a LGF and, although not necessarily being sexual with her at all, has romantic feelings for her, is he being unfaithful to his wife?

It feels to me that the romantic feelings and sexual attraction are unrelated to spousal loyalty but I imagine that might be argued by a wife. All of my relationships with girls or women have been sexually transitory, it seems to me by nature, so I don’t personally feel that sexual monogamy is all that beneficial in many or most cases. Again I am curious how members here feel about that and deal with the moral questions themselves.

Thank you all for your responses to my ‘kids on devices’ question. I very much agree and I am pleased there are others that value kids decisions and enjoy joining them in their interests.