"How about if society just lets every predator have equal access to children?!

You don't know in advance who's going to be predatory about it and who's not. And there's no way of getting a feel for it except by observation of character. Why can't any predator circumvent the process of certification by just pretending to be a good person? How does the certification change anything and what does it really accomplish aside from appointing a 3rd party to sort out those with good intentions from the rest?"

Certification indeed does not. 3rd party involvement does accomplish something.
"But I met her in a bar! The bouncer believed she´s 21, I believed the bouncer on that, she said as much and looked the part! And she charged for her services - I have no idea how many other men she has had, or why any of us should be especially responsible for her and her poxy bastard!"

This kind of "he said, she said", could be diminised, at the cost of some spontaneity, if 3rd party witnesses could be respected, not persecuted.

"Hi, mom! That´s Jimmy. I want him to stay the night in my bedroom."
"Nice to meet you. I see that Sara wanted defloration for her 13th birthday. Are you sure you´re healthy?"

Also: an ex-girl is a 3rd party for next girls, right? Whether the reason is "La donna e mobile" that teenagers are flighty, or paedophile was exclusive and lost interest for her.

Like Gabriela Koukalova:
https://24-my.info/gabriela-soukalova-sometimes-having-sex-before-a-race/

" I would like to say that I lost my virginity at 15, but it is not – leads to Super.cz of Koukalova. – It was a 12-year-old long-haired friend of my sister.

He was gentle and I enjoyed it and couldn’t stop thinking about what happened"

I´ve seen a more detailed description, but cannot find link to it now.

How would you like a Letter of Recommendation from your cousin going like (based on Gabriela):

"I gave my virginity to Rainbowloom age 12. He was a perfect gentleman, and I enjoyed all of it! He never broke up with me - I broke up with him, because I was never seriously in love with him, I wanted sex, not him. I am not at all disappointed of him or jealous of any future girl who wants him, and recommend him for any girl who wants gentle sex!"




• ( https link ) Account of defloration
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