My family (Mom, Dad, sister, brother, wife 1, wife 2, and wife 3) all know who I am. I am fortunate that they all still love me. (Well, except wife 1 who has remarried. Wife 2 has remarried and they both know but still accept me as a friend.)

But if I were to stand on the corner and announce that I feel like having sex with a kid, I'd be shot. Or stabbed. Or lynched. Just "wanting" is enough to get you in trouble.