Two things

First, don't worry about your replies being short or in multiple parts.

Second, what A wanted was normal for children. She wanted love and affection on their own terms. (All the children there did.) In my place, besides the landlord's place, I had air conditioning while nobody else had. Yes, it was hot, but not survival hot. A cool home was very much enjoyed by everyone who was in it.

Without getting blatant about me (for ident security), what I has asked A for was super simple for Her. She had been doing it on Her own, anyway. I had just asked Her to do it for me. (No, not masturbation. It all was legal.)