As far as our type of desire, I strongly advocate for informed consent.
That being said, the news is full of stories of "youth pastors" being arrested for alleged abuse and production of cp.
We will never know if the acts themselves were consensual or coerced. The law doesn't distinguish.
In today's climate, conservative Christianity doesn't advocate for child autonomy, especially sexual.
You may find an ally, a foe, or potential dark corner.
Tread carefully, but keep us posted.