Re: As usual my point is entirely missed.

Ya know, Infinity, I think you that you the one who is being intolerant lately, and I think you miss a lot of the points that other people try to make with you, also.

Now let me give you a small display of my temper, and let you see how it feels, while at the same time striving to be objective so this doesn't devolve into a pure flame post. As I have told many bisexuals before who cannot deal with the fact that not everyone is "wired" to be attracted to both genders: FUCK YOU, I don't think I'm "missing out" on anything...I DO NOT wish I was bisexual, I don't fucking care if they think I'm morally inferior to them for some cockamamie reason simply because I'm not attracted to everyone they are. I say the same thing to those who have a problem with the fact that I'm not attracted to pre-pubescents, and I won't lie and say otherwise for reasons of political expediency. And you know what, Infinity? If you have a fucking problem with the fact that I, or other people here, ARE NOT as attracted to older adult women as you are, if at all, then you know what YOU can go and do with yourself, as well!! We are not morally inferior to your ass, nor do we wish we were more like you, so make sure you don't fall off of that fucking moral high horse of yours and hurt yourself. There is NOTHING wrong with having a broad attraction base, be it in regards to gender or in regards to age...or BOTH. Most people are fucking happy with who they are and who they aren't attracted to, and they don't believe in that fucking "on and off switch" that you and others seem to think is there, and we don't think that nature made a "mistake" with us because we are only attracted to who we are attracted to.

As I told your foul-tempered ass before, we are going to perceive older women differently than you, and are not going to have the same type of social experiences with them as you are, just as a heterosexual will not experience the same type of social interactions with a member of the same sex as would a homosexual or bisexual. Many men find older woman attractive, and that's FINE. If these older women meet their needs physically, emotionally, and socially, then that is fine, and I fully encourage those people to seek out older women and form mutually fulfilling relationships with them. But I'm going to tell you that it's NOT my imagination, nor that of anyone else here, that older women are often VERY uncharitable when it comes to men who are not attracted to them, and if you have a problem with people bringing that up, then that's too fucking bad, isn't it? I don't want to make you feel that you're not wanted here, because that is NOT the case, so don't start with the Cindy K-style self-pity, whining, and huffing off from the board, because it doesn't suit the strong man that we all know you are. I should send you copies of the multitude of rude comments I receive from older women in both chat rooms and in response to personal ad's if I dare to mention that I'm looking for a younger woman. And you know what, Infinity? It's too fucking bad if they don't like it, and it's too fucking bad if YOU don't like it. I cherish my platonic friendships with older women, but I do not find most of them desirable in a sexual or emotional manner, I do not enjoy their social activities, and many of them frequently act jaded and bitter against more than enough men that they meet...if you don't like it when I say that, then GO TO HELL, man. I'm not saying that it's right to put them down all the time, but I am NOT going to lie for ANYONE and say I find them desirable, fun, etc., because I DON'T.

As for the pervs around here, I have spoken up against them before, and I'm getting sick of Furby and the negative attention he brings to this board, and I'm getting sick of Fairyphile's bad taste and asanine jokes every single day that is doing nothing but making the board look bad. Yes, I'm sick of the constant trolls around here, but you can thank the several legitimate posters here who absolutely refuse to register their names because they don't think it's important and think it's some kind of fucking security risk, when all they are really doing is inhibiting the mods from keeping the trolls under control. You DO have a legitimate complaint in regards to these things, so you would be justified with taking it up with the moderators. But in terms of calling us bitter because we can't find that mythical "on and off switch"? Don't make me FUCKING LAUGH, Infinity. There are many men out there who find older women attractive, and a lot of women spend many years going for guys that are jerks, because they find decent guys boring, yet they will turn around and be ignorant towards adult men who DO NOT find them attractive by taking all of their frustrations and insecurities out on them; I'm stuck dating them often enough, so I KNOW THIS. But in most cases, they can LEGALLY be with the men that THEY find attractive. I think that most of us on this board who DO NOT share that comfy situation deal with their anger and almost total lack of sexual contact and romance in our lives in a very brave manner. This is practically the only place that MAA's can go to discuss their disconcertment with being forced to date people that they are not attracted to. I agree they should't go overboard with the insults or the venting, but considering the type of antics along those lines that goes on at places like Courage to Heal and Open Hands against people like us, I think we are a god damn role model for courtesy in comparison! In fact, you said you would kill yourself if you couldn't satisfy your natural human need for sex and romance. And you have the nerve to put down those who deal with exactly that every day without killing themselves? And you can't handle the fact that some of us get frustrated sometimes??? Infinity, all I can say to that is you can take that self-righteous, hair trigger temper of yours and shove it so far down your throat that it exits your ass and impales you to the ground!

I see you being every bit as mean and "bitter" in attitude as anyone else here. You have been a very valuable and brilliant member of this community, and none of us want to see you leave. But if you feel that you can't tolerate other people who do not share ALL of your sexual and romantic interests, then all I can say is, don't let the door hit your ass on the way out. I do not find most older women fucking attractive, I don't like their attitudes towards men who aren't attracted to them, I do not wish that I was attracted to them, and if you don't like any of that, too fucking bad, because I won't EVER pretend otherwise to fit some kind of bigoted moral paradigm that is lingering in the shadows on this board because those who have a broad AttB can't deal with those who don't. TOO FUCKING BAD!! Deal with it, because no one here has to change for ANYONE else!!

Now calm down, because your friends a getting a bit tired of your attitude lately. We accept you for who you are and who you're attracted to, so please be kind enough to extend us the same courtesy in regards to who we aren't attracted to.

Your friend,

--Dissident