Re: emotional reactions

the way you are feeling is no different than the way a hetero feels when his chosen female shows interest in another. this is normal. if you decide to talk to her about it,then make your feelings known,but be sure to keep emotions in check. this is especially true with LG's. it could be a passing fascination or the beginning of a long term relationship. it sounds likely that he is willing to do things that you are afraid to do,thus her initial attraction. remember...life is not fair,and you dont own her. if it is meant to be,then she will grow bored with him and return to you. she is obviously impressed with his money,attention,and wizdom. however,this does not make him a perfect mate for her. he is using his age and financial prowess to win her over. i bet she will realize eventually that he is not for her. she will miss being with you and return. in the mean time,you have to be patient. if she does drop you all together,then you will just have to do what all people do. grieve at your loss,cry when you think about the good times you had together,and then move on. being a pedo does not mean that you should be immune to the fickleness of females. alot of females dont know what they really want,so they change their minds alot. i would imagine that this is even more common among LG,s. thats part of the risk associated with being in a relationship,regardless if the object of your affection is 8 or 38. one thing is right. dont let the jealousy eat you alive. if she decides that she wants him,then she will be seeking your approval as your friend. if you love her,you will let her go. it will be better for both of you in the long run. if she decides she wants you,then your love will be confirmed and strengthened by the experience. only time will tell. i hope this helps and doesnt sound too cold. girls=pain...