Re: Excuse me?

I think its fine if you just plan on being a family friend, but he's talking about manipulating the parents in order to get close to the child. That demonstrates an obsession, not just an attraction.

You also said you would never do anything. If you only love children platonically, then you would not need to post here. Platonic, nonsexual, and non-romantic love for children is socially acceptable.

Additionally, this contracticts your statement that "it's crazy to go through life without love." If your involvements with children are limited to platonic, nonsexual, non-romantic relations, then you may indeed be going though life without love.

Those that post on this site do so not just because they love children, but because they have romantic and sexual feelings for them, too. One cannot truely satisfy those feelings and be compliant with the law at the same time.

My effort here is to save a life, namely the life of the poster. He's going too far in his planning. As young as he is, he may not realize the import of his activities. If he succeeds, his next move may be to consumate his love. That could prove to be a mistake.