Re: Beckii: Schoolgirl Superstar at 14

She's happy to receive expensive gifts from her biggest fan, a ostensibly wealthy middle aged Japanese man, yet is a bit ambivalent about her relationship with him and whether it should continue despite the gifts he sends which please her.

I don't know what kind of a "relationship" they have beyond him being a fan and sending her gifts, and her happily receiving them, but if that's the extent of the relationship then I don't see a problem. Any other aspects of the relationship should be discussed and decided on between both parties. There may be a sense of expectation involved - that by accepting the gifts, this girl is tacitly granting this man a certain entitlement - to who knows what. But I think it's unfortunate if our conception of "gifting" has become that tainted. Gifts should be given without expectation of reciprocation. If you want something from a person, you can discuss that with them, and if they're not willing to give it, you may be able to come to a compromise - but a gift given without explicit conditions for acceptance should have no strings attached.

Anyway, she's already giving him something I suspect he enjoys - the opportunity to admire her through her videos/photos/whatever it is she's become famous for.