Only by the definitions of the fascist society is it the case where your desire for a demographic category is remotely of interest.
In their eyes, being exclusively teleio-hetero and interested only in c-cup european brunettes between 21 and 28 years of age isn't a fetish; while caring about girls of all races who are below puberty somehow is the fetish.
Your love is perfectly normal.
While your desires might cluster around a demographic, you never love the age, you love the individual girl. You support her love for her friends of the same age that you don't feel the same romantic chemistry with, and you support her loathing for bullies of the same age.
Each love is loved in her own right. And that is all that those who support her need to know about your feelings for her.