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In My Book You Are A Girl Lover

Posted by Puzzled on 2002-January-28 20:40:24, Monday
In reply to i think i agree here posted by poisontears on 2002-January-28 18:39:11, Monday

	pt, There is no agreed-upon definition of what the term "girl lover" means. heck, there is not even an agreed on spelling for it (I see it as one word sometimes and as two words other times - that double "l" seems to cause problems). Anyway, some people say that being a girl lover excludes anyone who moslests girls, others disagree. I use the word to describe a sexual orientation (just as "heterosexual" describes a sexual orientation and includes the "good" people and the "bad" people). So a child molester who is genuinely attracted to girls sexually would be a girl lover by this usage of the word. I also should add that just because you have fantasies that include doing harm to children does not mean you ever would. It is considered normal for heterosexuals to have rape fantasies and even acting out rape fantasies (between consenting adults) is a practice that many experts defend as ok, but having these fantasies and getting involved in such role playing does not mean that these people would ever really harm anyone. So don't be so sure that your fantasies make you a bad person or mean that you would harm someone. If you ever do think you would harm a girl, I would say that you should get some real help. But otherwise, it is not necessarily a bad thing. And if you are sexually attracted to girls you are as much a girl lover as anyone. Puzzled