I have a questions for someone who is willing to answer. I am a 43 year old mother of 2 (girl 10 boy 15). Their dad died two years ago. I met a guy who is 30 and we started dating (his idea). Well, to make a long story short, he molested my 10 year old daughter. He went to a therapist for help which ended up leading to his arrest. He is now waiting for his trial, where my daugher will have to testify against him. At first I was very angry and wanted nothing to do with him. But now I find that I am very much in love with him. I have forgiven him and still want to have a life with him. I know this probably varies, but is it possible for him to be attracted to little girls and women. I have asked him if he loves me and he always says yes. But is it the right kind of love. Are their guys who are attracted to both girls and women? This is all new to me and I am trying to educate myself and understand as much as I can. I don't want to set myself up for heartache.