GirlChat #173968
I know how you feel
Posted by Ari on 2002-June-12 20:24:10 EDT, Wednesday
In reply to Help me please posted by strawberry on 2002-June-12 17:53:56 EDT, Wednesday
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I had no outlet to talk about it, and no context to place my feelings in.
Deep inside, While I knew I could never cross the line, I was terrified that I might.
GC has helped me with all that. It helped me put things in perspective, and get past the sexual preoccupation. Yes, the sexual attraction is still there, but having somewhere to talk about it has helped me to appreciate LG'S for the angels they are. I am able to aknowlage the sexual aspect, yet realize that is only one aspect of GL, and is not the whole definition of GL, or my life.
Like you, I used to be terrified of close contact with a LG, for fear of crossing a line. Now I know I can have GM's, and enjoy the moment for what it is, without crossing any lines, (except maybe in my fantasies;)
Hang in there-It gets better.
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- How would you know? :+P - Strider@ThePub on 2002-June-12 21:53:49 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 10)
- Sorry Strider... - Hikari on 2002-June-13 01:49:26 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 7)
- Mexican Law... - NFiH on 2002-June-15 09:46:32 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- AgeOfConsent.com says 12; no passport or visa - Strider@ThePub on 2002-June-13 09:16:59 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Some infomation isn't actualized in this site.(nt) - Hikari on 2002-June-13 11:13:20 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Hikari, don't confuse your countries - Strider@ThePub on 2002-June-14 22:38:39 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Some infomation isn't actualized in this site.(nt) - Hikari on 2002-June-13 11:13:20 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Hi Hikari :)) - Sheepy on 2002-June-13 08:44:18 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- And just seeing you active on either board... - Dissident on 2002-June-13 16:28:58 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Thanks Sheepy! :)) - Hikari on 2002-June-13 11:20:01 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Again, I'm well aware of the diff... - Dissident on 2002-June-13 01:24:02 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Again, I'm well aware - Strider@ThePub on 2002-June-13 09:21:13 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Sorry Strider... - Hikari on 2002-June-13 01:49:26 EDT, Thursday - (0 / 0 / 7)