At this point...

I kinda agree with Neutrino... mothers tend to fantasise their daughters' sex lives. I seriously doubt that it goes as far as he says, "get off on that", though I could fantasise myself about it LOL... (eg, M and her mom... now THAT is a deviant fantasy... LOL) But they do that because they always want their daughters to live what they would consider a perfect life (and this holds true for fathers with boys too, although the sex component here would be slightly different). In that sense, if she trusted you and believed you were a nice, well-meaning person, she very well could dream that eventually you would marry her girl, as you were a good partner for her. Did she put sex into the equation? Most probably yes. But at that point in time, when she was just 9?? Maybe, maybe not, and nobody but her will ever know... (of course, don't even dream of asking her!)

In my own experience, K's parents (both of them) were wonderful people, and always very nice to me. AFAIK, they never disapproved of us together. It was a fear that I had, that they would prevent her from keeping in touch with me... but it seems that I was the nice guy... Well, I'm looking forward to this summer... I promised myself K will be there... worst-case scenario, to kill the memory... best-case, possible marriage LOL!!

And I just remembered... there was this teacher of mine in middle school. She was a single mother with a little daughter, 4yo, pretty, but I was not attracted to her... Once she told me that I was too smart, that she would like me to marry her daughter (I must've been 13 or 14 at the time)... Mmmh... I guess I could pay a visit... She must be a lovely teen by now...