Uh, this a macabre joke, right? I think the last thing on the mind of a sick and dying child in intense physical pain and facing an existential crisis is "gee, if only there was a man around who doesn't really care about me but wants to fiddle with my privates."
They might appreciate it more if you donated the funds to pay for their life saving antiretrovirals, so they could extend their lives a little longer.