You're missing one key point...

...and it is his WIFE. Does she not have the right to have sexual pleasure and enjoyment out of life? I don't agree that extra-marital affrairs happen ALL the time. SOME people do "cheat" on their spouse, but it is usually because they are MISSING something in their relationship and in this case, innocence is CLEARLY missing something important. Is it fair to his wife to not have any of HER needs and desires met? No. Why shouldn't she find some well hung stud to give her what she needs if he can't handle it?

You people need to understand some things. WOMEN have feelings and needs and desires JUST like us, and even though alot of you feel women are "yucky" and "gross" that does not change the facts (and I am sick and fuckng tired of hearing how horrible ALL women are). I feel VERY strongly about this because *I* have an adult gf who I have been with for over ten years and I would NEVER let her suffer from sexual frustration. I LOVE to do all sorts of sexual things with her. There is nothing quite like making love to a woman you are IN love with. If I was only turned on by little girls I would not expect my gf to sit around while her sexual needs went unmet. I would HELP her find someone she could get off with.

I think your advice at the end was horribly irresponsible. Telling him to get good at lying? If his relationship is so wonderful like he says it is then why can't he tell the truth? Maybe she WANTS him to find some young lovers so she can do the same thing? I don't think it is right to keep something THIS important from your life partner. It that wthe messageyou want to send out: That deceit and lies is the way to go? Besides, what is worse: Him telling her NOW and working on what to do next OR her finding out about it another way and knowing he was LYING and hiding it from her?

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