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emotional reactions

Posted by Devotion on 2003-July-26 12:31:40 EDT, Saturday
In reply to Why???? (rant) posted by NewtLover on 2003-July-26 12:06:42 EDT, Saturday

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Been there, it sucks tremendously.

"I know I'm uncontrollably jealous. Extremelly. BUt I'm right about this one."

You could be right about 'them', but she did say "love", right? Is it okay for you to love her, but bad for him to love her, if she is happy?

You gotta learn to keep that jealousy under control, or it will continue to hurt you, and rip you apart. Jealousy makes us scared of losing someone, and our natural instinct is to try and stop it from happening. We might try to control the circumstances... but people don't like to be controlled. If you can let her be free, she will probably love you more.

Yes, I know it's very difficult... but possible.

If she starts saying she doesn't want to see 'so-and-so', that's when you should start worrying.

 · Devotion ·


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