Running from the problem is no solution

It's never good to run away from a problem. It may be convenient for some of us to run away and adopt children in Timbuktu, but it doesn't address the problems HERE in the U.S., which is a country I still love, though I despise its system of government, and the current administration in particular. If all who could afford it took the easy solution out, then we'd still be abandoning our poor brothers and sisters here and making the problem that much worse on them. If you care about the community as I do, then your solution is no solution at all.

There are ways that you can alter your life and live the way God intended you to be. Personally, I found life as an exclusive pedo in the U.S. so unbearable that I moved and have since adopted children in the new country that I am in.

God has nothing to do with it, or rather, God is 99% of the problem. The vast majority of people who oppose a sexually open and tolerant culture do so in the name of God. I'm happy you could leave your family and friends behind so easily and find happiness in a foreign country in the relative comfort of your anonymity, wiling away your days bragging on GC about your adopting children, but as for me, I care far too much about this community to do that. My conscience will not allow me to take such an easy way out--for better or worse, I'm here on the front line to defend our brethren from persecution and let the world see that I'm not the selfish, licentious type of guy they accuse us of being. Yes, I suffer sometimes, but it's for a reason.

It sounds to be as if you have NO choice but to follow suit. What else are you going to do? Stay there, stay miserable, and then what? I don't know your legal situation but if you're able to travel, by all means DO IT. Grab a backpack and head to south America, eastern europe, or asia. Find a place that is more agreeable to pedophiles. And then adopt, there are MILLIONS of children that have no home at all.

Wrong--you still don't get it. It doesn't matter where I go; my conscience will not rest until the culture I live in begins to realize its error, and it will in time. Until then, I stand up and, hopefully, deflect some of the blows from my brothers and sisters here. As an out ped, I must provide a true example to the world that we are what we say we are--moving to Timbuktu and adopting kids would only make me look as suspicious as you appear to be, and furthermore, it's doubtful I'd even be able to adopt now if I wanted to. That is another part of the price of being outed.

Only then will you feel love and contentment.

I doubt it would be so easy. I will never be content until we have our rights HERE, in this country, and society has largely stopped persecuting us. I may never see that in my lifetime, and I'm prepared to live with that. In fact, as I see it, I have no other choice.

I don't want to hear that you are unable to travel at this time or move or anything of the sort. Where there is a will, there is a way. If you're on probation or something then wait until you are off and then travel. In the meantime, save up your money or start an internet business that you can do from another country. Plan plan plan.

I'm not on probation because I'm not a criminal. I simply opt not to take that route. Yes, there are millions of children who are homeless and suffering, unfortunately, and they are being sacrificed in the name of the current social purity movement as well. Perhaps some day the world will feel the weight of its own judgment and experience the guilt and shame it deserves to feel for condemning those children to lives of miseey, starvation and death out of its own misguided prejudices against peds, the vast majority of whom would gladly have adopted those children if they were allowed to do so.

Do not just sit there wallowing in misery. Do something about it.

I AM doing something. For starters, I'm out of the toybox, like I said, a huge step that few of us have undertaken. That in itself is the first step to fighting the prejudice--being open and proud of who we are. It isn't always easy, like at times like these. But such moments invariable pass and make me fight all the harder. I also have a website with my life story, my thoughts and feelings on child love, my art and fiction, and yes, my name and face. Also, I'm currently gathering funds for Lindsay so that he can continue representing this community the way he does best--travelling, spreading the word, and keeping his webpage up and online. Lindsay is our very own Johnny Appleseed, but he plants seeds of tolerance and truth. Furthermore, I'm a moderator on this board, a nearly full-time job in itself. And I have many other projects in mind for the future of this community and the underlying child lib movement now in its infancy. What are you doing for your ped brothers and sisters?