Re: Parents and Peds - Complementary and Conflicting

I'm trying real hard here Ethan. Do you understand that we (society as a whole) create reality? You talk as if you see it clearly as an external, unchangeable thing. Is that the world you want? You talk like it is but I don't believe it. Why do you think you have a sexual attraction to 3-5 year olds? Are you sick? Are you a mistake? You are a puzzle to me.

Now, that said, I admit that an anti-contact attitude could be helpful to a pedophile to keep him out of trouble, depending on that pedophiles impulse control. I recognize it as a possible temporary tool but not as the solution to our dilemma. So, I'm trying real hard to get you.

The ideal adult doesn't expect to get much back from a child and doesn't feel offended if the child is indifferent to them or loses interest.

That is not the ideal adult to me, as a parent or a girl lover. I love it when my kids find adults interesting and I welcome the adult to care about being interesting to them.

In today's world, of course, detecting a hint of sexual attraction will make parents go crazy.

Yeah, I think that's right. People keep asking you to stop reinforcing the status quo and you keep saying you are not. But . . . isn't' this statement doing just that (refer back to my first paragraph).

You are confusing me.