GirlChat #599148
Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world!
Posted by EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 03:12:53 EDT, Monday
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I have been assured that all the old-timers here know this already. However, there are people who just read a board and do not post and there are always new members.
Sexual activity between a man and an underage girl today is a very bad idea and risks serious delayed harm to the girl. The essential problem is secrecy. If she does not keep it a secret, then mandated reporter laws will wreak havoc on both of you. If she liked you, knowing that spilling the beans got you locked up in prison will be very distressing.
If she does keep the secret, she has to keep it for the rest of her life, since there are few if any statutes of limitation applicable to the situation. If she remembers it fondly, she has to constantly monitor herself to not mention it to the wrong person. If, on the other hand, she comes to regret it or feel conflicted about it -- which is very common for early sexual encounters -- she cannot get help from any professional to deal with her feelings without destroying your life and putting her through hell too. Confiding in friends puts her in great peril too -- and gives those friends a secret they have to keep in turn.
She will do just fine without sexual activity, and you owe it to her to make sure nothing happens, even if you strongly desire it.
You already know that society at large condemns any sexual activity. You may think it's unfair, but that's the way it is right now, and you're the one who can save your girl from such harm. Your fellow GirlChat posters also condemn such activity.
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- Or you could just not keep it secret! - Hajduk on 2014-July-25 21:48:33 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 19:50:24 EDT, Monday - (1 / 0 / 9)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Hajduk on 2014-July-26 12:25:39 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Joey Bishop on 2014-July-25 16:42:36 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Dante on 2014-July-22 08:43:22 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-22 18:17:56 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - CatcherintheRye on 2014-July-21 23:26:00 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Starting from scratch - Dante on 2014-July-22 09:03:31 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Actually yes Dante could have said - Hierophant on 2014-July-21 20:56:33 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Actually yes Dante could have said - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 21:14:16 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Actually yes - Dante on 2014-July-22 05:39:43 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Actually yes Dante could have said - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 21:14:16 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Please stop posting the same thread over and over - Astraeos on 2014-July-21 13:42:24 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Ghasp!? Condoning Lawbreaking? - Dante on 2014-July-21 11:48:51 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Feel better? - Luftetari on 2014-July-21 11:38:48 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Didn't you get banned for this once already? -nt- - Theo on 2014-July-21 07:48:46 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 3)
- Re: Didn't you get banned for this once already? -nt- - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 08:40:35 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- correct ... - Baldur on 2014-July-21 21:38:42 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: correct ... - Joey Bishop on 2014-July-25 16:30:36 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- correct ... - Baldur on 2014-July-21 21:38:42 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Didn't you get banned for this once already? -nt- - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 08:40:35 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Gimwinkle on 2014-July-21 07:47:11 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Not flipped off, but laughed at - Trucker on 2014-July-21 09:14:44 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- 'She' - Dante on 2014-July-22 00:56:28 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Not flipped off, but laughed at - Trucker on 2014-July-21 09:14:44 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Thanks for the public service announcement. nt - jasmine on 2014-July-21 07:30:59 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Gee, really? - Baldur on 2014-July-21 06:49:43 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 05:38:53 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 16)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - girls_are_kittens on 2014-July-21 07:51:45 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Agreed - Dante on 2014-July-22 00:53:11 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - rainbowloom on 2014-July-21 07:04:55 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 12)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 08:36:30 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 10)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Hajduk on 2014-July-25 21:03:41 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-26 12:40:52 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Hajduk on 2014-July-26 05:06:02 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-26 12:40:52 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Eternal Vigilance? - Dante on 2014-July-22 00:41:59 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder... (Ping Ethan!) - rainbowloom on 2014-July-21 19:26:35 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Reminder... (Ping Ethan!) - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 19:56:12 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Reminder... (Ping Ethan!) - rainbowloom on 2014-July-21 20:36:19 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder... (Ping Ethan!) - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 19:56:12 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - rainbowloom on 2014-July-21 11:54:20 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - girls_are_kittens on 2014-July-21 09:17:55 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Correction dude - Trucker on 2014-July-21 09:46:18 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - Hajduk on 2014-July-25 21:03:41 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - girls_are_kittens on 2014-July-21 07:30:37 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - EthanEdwards on 2014-July-21 08:36:30 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 10)
- Debating a mute. - Hierophant on 2014-July-21 06:12:09 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - girls_are_kittens on 2014-July-21 07:51:45 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Reminder: You do not speak for Girl Chat - girls_are_kittens on 2014-July-21 05:34:47 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Is it really necessary to post this on GC? - rainbowloom on 2014-July-21 05:00:27 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Projecting much? - Trucker on 2014-July-21 04:15:59 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Immediate Reaction: - Gatekeeper on 2014-July-21 03:57:44 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Immediate Reaction: - perfectrealitylover on 2014-July-21 05:39:00 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - hieronymus on 2014-July-21 03:43:49 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reminder: no adult-child sex in today's world! - CatcherintheRye on 2014-July-21 03:39:35 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)