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Re: False memories

Posted by Baldur on 2012-August-02 10:12:47 EDT, Thursday
In reply to False memories posted by lee lette on 2012-August-02 09:55:08 EDT, Thursday
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"my mother being a nurse should have known something was wrong, she knew healthy, loved children do NOT masturbate.. I had one episode of what could be considered *deviant* sexuality, when I masturbated in front of a female relative (in retrospect I think it was to draw attention that something was wrong in my family, but she kept silent about it - needless to say, I was extremely ashamed about this, as well). I didn't know what I was doing, I knew it was wrong from my parents' reactions (shock, disgust etc)."

This woman was abused as a child - but not by being forced into sex.

On the contrary, she was abused by being rejected by her parents for her sexuality - which is to say, she masturbated as a child (like many healthy children do) and her parents reacted in very negative ways. Because of the false presumptions in our society, she has accepted her parents' attitude toward sex, and so altered the narrative so that she could not be "guilty" of masturbating but instead is (most likely) falsely accusing her father of a different type of abuse.



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