GirlChat #722924
Good Luck: That is why one should never "come out"
Posted by freedomday on 2018-February-06 15:47:53 EST, Tuesday
In reply to Phone call tonight (any ideas?) posted by rainbowloom on 2018-February-06 14:34:17 EST, Tuesday
Good Luck but That is exactly why one should never "come out" if you want to or intend to have little friends. you are basically trying to roll back peoples perceptions of you after you made a big deal about your sexuality.
If you (like me) never had any adult relationships and never have given any impressions that you are interested in sex, people who know you, and like you, are free to assume your "good" (from their perspective) intentions.
Some "pedo" who is married and/or always running around with various women falls right in to the stereotype of the molester next door. However a nice guy who admits nothing can be assumed to be an asexual harmless man-child.
If you never "come out" people cannot reconcile the idea that a nice guy who all the girls love could possibly be a "pedophile".
and yes, I walk the walk, LOL, I sweet talk, make googely eyes and hold hands with girls in front of adults without being banned or blacklisted, and I'm allowed to be with them in private also.
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Responses
- if you are not out and you don't have girls STFU - kissbyalice on 2018-February-07 01:32:18 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 18)
- LOL - freedomday on 2018-February-07 10:04:23 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 17)
- freedomday, just keep posting. - griffith on 2018-February-09 20:36:50 EST, Friday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- You really have no clue who you are messing with - kissbyalice on 2018-February-07 14:32:25 EST, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 15)
- Stop - OMGLG on 2018-February-09 06:16:39 EST, Friday - (2 / 0 / 14)
- Adding to this - Predator on 2018-February-09 20:40:14 EST, Friday - (1 / 0 / 13)
- ethics? - manbot on 2018-February-09 21:29:50 EST, Friday - (2 / 0 / 12)
- Um. . . . - Balto on 2018-February-10 04:36:57 EST, Saturday - (1 / 0 / 11)
- Snowflakes vs the genuine article. - manbot on 2018-February-10 12:21:09 EST, Saturday - (1 / 0 / 10)
- I'm not saying he wasn't overly defensive. . . . - Balto on 2018-February-10 16:12:43 EST, Saturday - (3 / 0 / 9)
- Snowflakes II - manbot on 2018-February-11 15:25:24 EST, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Agree to disagree. [nft] - Balto on 2018-February-12 16:08:26 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Kba is our Donald Trump - Predator on 2018-February-10 23:21:10 EST, Saturday - (2 / 0 / 6)
- Muddled ethics and excuses - manbot on 2018-February-11 18:39:48 EST, Sunday - (1 / 0 / 4)
- Oh! Scary scary scary WORDS! - Predator on 2018-February-11 19:44:54 EST, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- burden of proof - manbot on 2018-February-15 11:28:15 EST, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- ok, let us reboot. - Predator on 2018-February-15 17:32:04 EST, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Thank You [nft] - rainbowloom on 2018-February-12 16:12:27 EST, Monday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- burden of proof - manbot on 2018-February-15 11:28:15 EST, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 1)
- Oh! Scary scary scary WORDS! - Predator on 2018-February-11 19:44:54 EST, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- This is a reply to the post above mine, no? [nt] - Balto on 2018-February-11 03:52:32 EST, Sunday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Muddled ethics and excuses - manbot on 2018-February-11 18:39:48 EST, Sunday - (1 / 0 / 4)
- Snowflakes II - manbot on 2018-February-11 15:25:24 EST, Sunday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- I'm not saying he wasn't overly defensive. . . . - Balto on 2018-February-10 16:12:43 EST, Saturday - (3 / 0 / 9)
- Snowflakes vs the genuine article. - manbot on 2018-February-10 12:21:09 EST, Saturday - (1 / 0 / 10)
- Um. . . . - Balto on 2018-February-10 04:36:57 EST, Saturday - (1 / 0 / 11)
- ethics? - manbot on 2018-February-09 21:29:50 EST, Friday - (2 / 0 / 12)
- Adding to this - Predator on 2018-February-09 20:40:14 EST, Friday - (1 / 0 / 13)
- Stop - OMGLG on 2018-February-09 06:16:39 EST, Friday - (2 / 0 / 14)
- LOL - freedomday on 2018-February-07 10:04:23 EST, Wednesday - (1 / 0 / 17)
- Okay, but: - rainbowloom on 2018-February-06 16:28:11 EST, Tuesday - (1 / 0 / 2)