GirlChat #557173
Things change.
Posted by Gatekeeper on 2012-June-06 16:16:37 EDT, WednesdayBecause we are never given the Truth in news reports, I am, of course, making some assumptions--though fair ones, I think--about the following story which may be currently found on Yahoo:
"L.A. NOW
Southern California -- this just in"
"Facebook leads to arrest of man in O.C. sexual assault case
June 5, 2012 | 5:47 pm"
"In January of 1995, Hong, then 28 and living in Rhode Island, met the girl [12] during a visit to Orange County, authorities said. Over a period of nearly two years, prosecutors say Hong drove several times and finally flew roundtrip to California, taking the girl to motels in Garden Grove and Anaheim to have sex."
My first assumption is that the two had a consensual relationship. This lasted "two years", and the man had to come and go "several times".
"The incidents went unreported, and no charges were filed at the time. Last January, prosecutors say Hong used Facebook to contact the woman, now 29 and married to a police officer...."
It wasn't until "months later" that the woman reported the alleged "rape" to the police.
My second assumption is that no matter how good the loving relationship may be with a girl, she is going to grow up and change. Maybe marry a cop. Her attitudes and values and beliefs may change.
It is a sad, but all too often, truth which I think we need to keep in mind.
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- an expression of our plight - summerdays on 2012-June-08 20:12:24 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Things change. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 06:37:37 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Things change. - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-06 22:02:49 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 90)
- Something nobody yet has pointed out - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 18:42:37 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Good point. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 23:51:19 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Let me step in here - Dissident on 2012-June-07 06:44:46 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- I have a few questions. (Seriously.) - Paedestrian on 2012-June-07 05:14:12 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 11)
- Re: I have a few questions. (Seriously.) - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 08:09:15 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 6)
- I second AK47's warning. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:28:06 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 4)
- A rock and a hard place if I've ever seen them - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 17:30:03 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- I disagree. - AK47 on 2012-June-07 18:29:37 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- Re: I disagree. - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 18:46:35 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- I mean yea... - AK47 on 2012-June-07 18:48:29 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: I disagree. - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 18:46:35 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- I disagree. - AK47 on 2012-June-07 18:29:37 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- A rock and a hard place if I've ever seen them - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 17:30:03 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- A warning to you Andrew. - AK47 on 2012-June-07 08:18:31 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- I second AK47's warning. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:28:06 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 4)
- To be fair to you, I'll answer them myself also. - Paedestrian on 2012-June-07 05:56:57 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- replies to the LA Times article ... - Baldur on 2012-June-07 14:59:09 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Response - Hamburger on 2012-June-07 09:38:42 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Agreed. - AK47 on 2012-June-07 18:20:41 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 0)
- Re: I have a few questions. (Seriously.) - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 08:09:15 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 6)
- And I get jumped on. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-06 23:26:51 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 74)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - BB on 2012-June-07 12:04:22 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 29)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 07:02:10 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 4)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - BB on 2012-June-07 07:42:35 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:38:32 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- I actually laughed at that post - BB on 2012-June-08 12:33:12 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 1)
- Re: I actually laughed at that post - Dissident on 2012-June-08 08:01:16 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- I actually laughed at that post - BB on 2012-June-08 12:33:12 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 1)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:38:32 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 2)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - BB on 2012-June-07 07:42:35 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-07 04:54:12 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 23)
- And one other thing: - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 07:27:34 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: And one other thing: - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 07:38:50 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Yes, and please note, BB... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 07:08:29 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 19)
- Yes, you were very polite and helpful... - BB on 2012-June-07 07:44:36 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 18)
- Of course - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:43:27 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 8)
- Wow, that's a lot of inference - BB on 2012-June-08 12:16:11 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 7)
- Re: Wow, that's a lot of inference - Dissident on 2012-June-08 08:21:46 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 6)
- Oh how I hate those anti-Semanticists! - Sexiest GLer of All Time on 2012-June-08 14:30:11 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 4)
- They are the bain of his existance :) -nt- - BB on 2012-June-08 15:33:57 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 3)
- spellcheck - the bane of YOUR existence? ;-) -nt- - Baldy on 2012-June-08 15:51:28 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 2)
- I know, I know.... - BB on 2012-June-09 01:41:45 EDT, Saturday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- THAT'S 'brain of his existentialist' - Lil'Grundoon on 2012-June-08 19:04:20 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- spellcheck - the bane of YOUR existence? ;-) -nt- - Baldy on 2012-June-08 15:51:28 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 2)
- They are the bain of his existance :) -nt- - BB on 2012-June-08 15:33:57 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 3)
- .... - BB on 2012-June-08 10:24:12 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Oh how I hate those anti-Semanticists! - Sexiest GLer of All Time on 2012-June-08 14:30:11 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 4)
- Re: Wow, that's a lot of inference - Dissident on 2012-June-08 08:21:46 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 6)
- Wow, that's a lot of inference - BB on 2012-June-08 12:16:11 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 7)
- I like you. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:07:00 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 8)
- And I'm starting not to like you... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:45:12 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Know what really pisses me off? - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:50:29 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Ditto, bro - BB on 2012-June-07 08:11:05 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 5)
- We have every right to... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:47:13 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- How very... - BB on 2012-June-07 13:22:32 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- What the fuck! - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:54:25 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Actually... - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:17:11 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Actually... - Baldur on 2012-June-07 15:46:54 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- We have every right to... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:47:13 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- And I'm starting not to like you... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:45:12 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Of course - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:43:27 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 8)
- Yes, you were very polite and helpful... - BB on 2012-June-07 07:44:36 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 18)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 06:13:00 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- And one other thing: - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 07:27:34 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 07:02:10 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 4)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 06:54:55 EDT, Thursday - (1 / 0 / 8)
- As I see it. - Dante on 2012-June-08 10:53:02 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Excellent post (nt) - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-08 15:52:06 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Andrew will just learn to play the game better. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 07:12:15 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 5)
- expectations - Baldur on 2012-June-07 15:30:03 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- You could take care of your mod duties. NT - griffith on 2012-June-07 15:53:12 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Andrew will just learn to play the game better. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:03:48 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Andrew will just learn to play the game better. - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 08:18:14 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Andrew will just learn to play the game better. - Hieronymus on 2012-June-08 15:25:53 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Andrew will just learn to play the game better. - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 08:18:14 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- expectations - Baldur on 2012-June-07 15:30:03 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- As I see it. - Dante on 2012-June-08 10:53:02 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-07 04:38:16 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 23)
- You are right. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 07:15:20 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 9)
- Re: You are right. - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 06:28:18 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Gatekeeper, please do not start... - Dissident. on 2012-June-07 08:08:49 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: You are right. - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 07:53:59 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 6)
- When I was in daycare or teaching.... - AK47 on 2012-June-07 08:12:57 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- A person with common sense! - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:18:35 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Your true colors are shining through. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:01:50 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 3)
- Re: Your true colors are shining through. - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 06:43:52 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- False - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 17:17:07 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Please understand... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 08:16:22 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- When I was in daycare or teaching.... - AK47 on 2012-June-07 08:12:57 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-07 06:58:10 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 12)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 07:19:45 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Dissident on 2012-June-08 09:46:17 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 07:55:24 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 9)
- And yet you admit... - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:04:28 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 8)
- Re: And yet you admit... - DaveBoy on 2012-June-08 21:58:24 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- Re: And yet you admit... - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 06:54:14 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Um... - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 17:21:15 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- Re: And yet you admit... - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 08:12:09 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 4)
- Re: And yet you admit... - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 07:00:10 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 3)
- Re: And yet you admit... - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-08 08:04:16 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 2)
- 21 and over and 16? - Hierophant on 2012-June-08 09:05:04 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- Re: And yet you admit... - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 08:34:57 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 0)
- Re: And yet you admit... - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-08 08:04:16 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 2)
- Re: And yet you admit... - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 07:00:10 EDT, Friday - (3 / 0 / 3)
- And yet you admit... - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 08:04:28 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 8)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 07:19:45 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- You are right. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 07:15:20 EDT, Thursday - (3 / 0 / 9)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-06 23:48:14 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 9)
- To be fair to all sides... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 07:51:31 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 7)
- Removing the burden of proof - summerdays on 2012-June-08 20:52:53 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- very well said ... - Baldur on 2012-June-07 16:00:57 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: To be fair to all sides... - MAPTherapy on 2012-June-07 08:24:43 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 4)
- Re: To be fair to all sides... - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 08:17:24 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- How is this for counterproductive? - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-08 08:50:53 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: How is this for counterproductive? - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 22:14:33 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- How is this for counterproductive? - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-08 08:50:53 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: To be fair to all sides... - Baldur on 2012-June-07 16:11:43 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: To be fair to all sides... - Joey Bishop on 2012-June-08 08:17:24 EDT, Friday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- And do you have no response to this: - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-07 07:20:29 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- To be fair to all sides... - Dissident on 2012-June-07 07:51:31 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 7)
- Mind if I jump? - AK47 on 2012-June-06 23:42:37 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: And I get jumped on. - BB on 2012-June-07 12:04:22 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 29)
- Something nobody yet has pointed out - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-07 18:42:37 EDT, Thursday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Things change. - Dante on 2012-June-06 19:16:59 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- In the back of their minds... - AK47 on 2012-June-06 18:32:48 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Things change. - OneTwoExYou on 2012-June-06 17:41:24 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Things change. - redcocoa101 on 2012-June-06 16:52:57 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 2)
- Undergrounding - qtns2di4 on 2012-June-06 18:55:57 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Thank you for you comments. - Gatekeeper on 2012-June-06 17:26:00 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Things change. - Bottle on 2012-June-06 16:48:14 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Things change. - Minstrel. on 2012-June-06 17:08:07 EDT, Wednesday - (2 / 0 / 0)