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Posted by [Unregistered Poster] on 2008-July-22 23:16:37 EDT, Tuesday
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Before asking my questions, I want to clarify three things:

1.- I'm not a pedophile nor I support it. That doesn't mean I hate you or anything like that. I have to admit you scare me, though.
2.- I don't want this to turn into a flame. If you find my words rude or wrong, please correct me politely and I'll apologize for them.
3.- I'm sorry if there're grammar mistakes. English is not my first language.

Now that's out of my way, onto my post:

I arrived here while I was looking for a lesbian/bi chat *I was following links with the words "girl chat" in the title and here I am* I started reading some posts and I was completely shocked when I discovered what this web was about.

When I was about eight, an unknown man tried to make me go into his car so he could "take me to the beach" *I was on my way to the public pool* and insisted about it until I run away in tears and scared out of my mind. I never talked to a stranger again during the rest of my childhood and my early teenage years. Then another man, this one known by my family, tried to touch me *and I'm not talking about my arm* and even offered me money to go with him, saying that he was being generous because I was "fresh" and that he could find a hooker for way less but he liked me better. I was twelve then and could confront him. He left me alone when I threatened him to call the police if he ever dared to even look at me or any of my friends again.

These two episodes have been in my mind since then and I still can't understand why someone can be sexually attracted to a little girl. When I see one of them, I just think of princesses and cardboard castles, tea parties, playing with mom's make-up and things like that. I thought about it a thousand times but I still can't understand why anybody would be aroused by them, they're so tiny and fragile, an adult would hurt them if s/he tried anything sexual with them. They don't even understand sex yet! *please, don't try to prove me wrong on this point, I have a niece who's 6 and I know for a fact she doesn't understand what it is*

Reading this board, I have to say I'm scared of letting her go out of my sister's house anymore. I'm sorry but things like "OMG! That 8 year-old girl is HOT!" or "I saw a LG wearing a dress and she was wearing white cotton panties, nice view!" scare me. A LOT. With this I'm not saying you should go to jail or anything like that, in case you're just talking about it or thinking about it. But I can't help to be scared of it. I hope knowing the answer to my questions can take the fears away ot, at least, make them smaller.

After this *maybe* TL;DR intro, I want to ask you a few questions:

- Why do you think you're attracted to LG? Please, don't answer that with "Just because" or "Why are you attracted to men/women?" because I can answer that. I really want a truthful answer to this one.

- If a pedophile molests/has sex/tries to have sex/takes nude pics of a LG *I'm not talking about a teen here, I'm talking about a child*, do you think that is a correct behaviour? Or s/he should go to jail? Why? Where do you trace the no-no line? Would it be different if it wasn't illegal or you trace it there thinking about the children and not just the law?

- Are you sexually attracted to other people/things/whatever or just LG? If the answer is yes, do those interests have anything in common with the one discussed here? Why?

Thank you for your time, your answers and for reading this really long post.

[The author of this post does not wish to get registered, just to make this one and only post: "I just want some answers and not to go back there ever again." NFiH]

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